My High School Yearbook Helps me Recognize my Failures Due to My Fixed Mindset
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What do I write? A rather idiosyncratic blog with a niche audience. Specifications that frequently don’t get implemented quite as I expect them to. Some academic papers that nobody reads. My fixed mindset has led me to believe that my writing will never reach a large audience. My lab partner from ninth grade biology class (assigned seats, alphabetical by last name)? She writes episodes of television shows. I personally identify as a poorly socialized mathematician; I have no chance of being held up as an example of what someone might aspire to be. Her wedding announcement was in the New York Times.
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Does fixed mindset also hold me back in sports? I’ve really been trying to go to the gym a few times a week, but I keep making excuses. I don’t really believe that I can achieve my goals. I’ve decided that my best chance to become successful at anything athletic is to rely on my family’s good genes and hope that I can find an activity where I can find some minimal success in the “over 90” division. On the other hand, one of my high school classmates competed in the 2000 Summer Olympics. I think that he came in fourth at the shot put.
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When it comes to programming, I can write examples that are used in tutorials. I can put together a proof of concept that will never get used in production. Let’s face it, I’m never going to write a killer app. One of my classmates from my eleventh grade physics class was a co-founder of MyFitnessPal. He and his brother sold their company for approximately infinity dollars.
Also worthy of mention (not in my grade): The younger brother of one of my classmates works in the film industry. The inventor of the Roomba graduated four years ahead of me. One of the co-founders of AirBnB was in my cousin’s grade. Decades before I was born, Ron Rivest (the “R” in “RSA encryption) graduated from my high school.